There’s no Knight in Shining Armor Coming...

This article is to help you understand that you can be your own hero. You are your own knight in shining armor and if you are generous enough you can be a knight to others rather than waiting for someone on a white stallion to come galloping into your life and save you…

There is Light at the End of the Tunnel

Sometimes it’s impossible to change someone that has only one perspective. They may even be so stubborn and egoistical that they will refuse even if you offer them help. These people will look for quick and easy ways to achieve their goals by trying the wrong paths, leaving them in a worse situation than where they began. This happens. Life happens. You try quick and wrong routes and end up worst off. Now what?

Remember you have the potential to pull yourself out of any situation. Even if you’re born in hell, you can still come out of it. It’s what you make of it. You can work your way out even if it means crawling out.

Finding the Light

Don’t feel stuck. The biggest problem many of us face is our ability to communicate. There are many ways to ask for help, guidance, and motivation. We are in an era where information is at our fingertips.

Many people are willing to share their life experiences and impart their knowledge to others. These days you really don’t need to reinvent the wheel. Information on any subject is readily available. In the past, people were skeptical about sharing their secrets of success. These days millions of people are ready to share their secrets with the world.

So every individual has the potential to pull themselves out of any situation. The key is communication. If you cannot do this by expressing your thoughts or feelings then write these down, and make a list of all the things that you want to achieve and by when you want to achieve these. At this point don’t even concern yourself with the “how”, i.e. how to achieve? Once the big steps are broken down into smaller steps, you will be amazed as to how simple what seemed to have been great challenges will look like and slowly everything will fall into place. It’s nature's rule of meeting you halfway.

Hold onto the Light

Tackle each step one at a time; ask for help and again use the various mediums available to you in this current world we live in. Try to communicate in whichever way is comfortable for you but do not fail to communicate. Do not decide to remain silent. You may also decide on putting a team together. All you need is 2 or 3 people on your team. These could be close friends, relatives, neighbors, your spouse, or children. Share your ideas with your team and give them insight into your dreams and aspirations. This is the team that you chose. This team is made up of people that will support you morally, and emotionally and motivate you if the need arises, like on those days when you want to throw the towel in.

Although, I’d like to add that looking for financial support may be a tough one. People won’t share their earnings eagerly but will share ideas, and provide verbal or emotional support. If you think about it for a second, you would do exactly the same. It’s difficult to just part with your hard-earned money.

If you are a believer put GOD first and He will align people and opportunities to support your ideas, however, the secret is to communicate. If you keep quiet while you have all these brilliant ideas in your head, your ideas will sadly die with you resulting in no fruition.

Share the Light

Do not keep these ideas to yourself building walls around you as if you are carrying military secrets. Remove the blocks in your thinking and in your vision. Those blocks are your biggest hurdles. Do not expect others to read your mind and know what you are thinking, or what your desires, goals, and visions are. Even those closest to you cannot read your mind. You have to open up and share your visions.

Do not do anything for someone else. Do it for yourself. Strive to accomplish your own dreams but do not expect others to feel the same passion and also don’t get frustrated when they don’t. Each individual is unique in their own way and they also have their own dreams and goals to achieve and they will achieve it by any means and ways.

So basically you are on your own. Be your own hero, be your own knight in shining armor, and like I said if you can share your goodness then why not. Once you fill your void, your cup will overflow and become a supply to others. This is the ultimate accomplishment.

Love you lots…